Whom do you want to choose the Guardian for
your children? Your choices are: A) Yourself B) A probate court judge Failing to choose A is choosing B. Delaying the decision doesn’t change the options. You must choose. CHOOSING A GUARDIAN FOR YOUR KIDS Married couples should answer these questions separately and make a decision separately. If you have trouble coming up with an answer, answer those you can and set a specific date and time deadline for the others. ONLY NAME ONE MEMBER OF A COUPLE AS GUARDIAN - the one you would prefer if the couple divorced. But do keep in mind that the spouse of your Guardian will be deeply involved. Be sure to name an alternate - maybe the other spouse, maybe not. It goes without saying that your children’s relationship with the Guardian is foundational to this decision. If spouses do not make the same choice, discuss the reasons for your choices – you must come to an agreement. FIRST - Using the attached score sheet, score each of your options on a scale of 1-10 for each of the following questions. Question #1 - IS IT LIKELY THAT THEY WILL OUTLIVE YOU? Question #2 - HOW IS THEIR HEALTH? Question #3 - IF THEY HAVE CHILDREN OF THEIR OWN, HOW ARE
THEY DOING? Question #4 - WILL YOU BE ABLE TO PROVIDE FINANCIALLY FOR
YOUR CHILDREN AFTER YOUR DEATH? Question #5 - DO THEY HAVE TIME TO RAISE YOUR KIDS? Question #6 - WHAT ARE THEIR VIEWS ON EDUCATION AND RELIGION? Question #7 - WHERE DO THEY LIVE? |
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